Comments on: Crazy Girls

By: *e

*e — Fri, 30 Nov 2007 01:33:29 +0000

So franksabunch, what are you saying about your wife? Just kidding. That’s awesome she pushes you in the direction you want to go, yet wouldn’t have the courage to go yourself.

By: franksabunch

franksabunch — Wed, 28 Nov 2007 23:47:16 +0000

I think because I’m such a mellow guy (you know, me being from Hawaii and all) I’ve always been attracted to crazy girls to make me step outside of my shell. Of course, I get irritated when my wife makes me do that, but I still love her for it.

By: *e

*e — Wed, 28 Nov 2007 19:42:08 +0000

Thanks so much for stopping by, bi2ian. Indeed, progress is good and just because we don’t always stop and answer that “Ok where am I now?” question all the time it doesn’t mean we aren’t always growing. We often “need” to be in those ruts, too, to figure out where we don’t want to go anymore. Like they say, everything happens for a reason and makes us appreciate that which is happening in the moment.

By: bi2ian007

bi2ian007 — Tue, 27 Nov 2007 10:02:15 +0000

“Extraverts operate by deriving their energy from other people.” Hmmm…interesting. I’m a no-longer-as-obvious introvert, and I feel the converse of that statement is true too.

Life is the confusion of emotional understanding. It gets us places, but we never really know where we’re at and we often don’t care. So long as we aren’t in the same place as the previous moment, we can often fool ourselves into maturity and progress by simply moving in a circle that takes a sequence of moments to traverse.

Ok, I have no idea what I just wrote. Anyhow, I just wanted to swing by your blog like I had promised. =)

By: *e

*e — Mon, 19 Nov 2007 22:47:21 +0000

@twolims: That’s funny. Sometimes I hear people complaining that they’re getting “so old” as they approach 30 and while I’ll feel pressure to say the same, quite honestly I am looking forward to it. The maturity factor is one of those things where I think, “Dang, I would never be 23 again for a million bucks” because can you really imagine having to go through all that all over, again? The ignorance is not bliss, methinks.

By: twolims

twolims — Mon, 19 Nov 2007 19:19:06 +0000

I was just telling my husband how I did some stupid/crazy things when we were dating that were SO petty. “I was just a stupid girl in my early 20’s,” I said. It’ll be interesting 10 years from now how I’ll probably say the same thing looking back.

By: *e

*e — Mon, 19 Nov 2007 16:14:52 +0000

@Edrei: Sometimes it’s undeniable when there’s chemistry. If it’s there, it’s there. Who’s to say exactly what it is–dysfunction or not? Also, it goes without saying that we each have our own dysfunction to make the complete match whether we admit it or not.

@soulst0p: I think we’ve all been there. The mystery of the … unmanagability of it all keeps our intrigue. That is–for me it lasts until I grow absolutely tired and think it’s not even worth it anymore.

By: soulst0p

soulst0p — Sat, 17 Nov 2007 07:06:44 +0000

After tiring of crazy girls, and seeking the non-crazy ones, I have found that there may not be enough emotional spark to make dating a laid-back girl interesting to me.

Truth be told, the girls who have really gotten to me the most were the girls that were the most wrong for me. Spoiled, crazy, princess types, with no shortage of drama, and no shortage of attention from douchey guys.

By: Edrei

Edrei — Sat, 17 Nov 2007 05:50:15 +0000

Well in retrospect, I am attracted to crazy girls. Or at least, emotionally dysfunctional women. There is something about them that’s usually out of the ordinary.

But you’re right, some people are dramatic for no real reason and sadly, that kind of craziness is too normal for me.

Yet, they are there though, the unique ones. The ones that are strange and fascinating. Women who are who they are without trying. Always special and always the proverbial candle with us drawn to that flame.

As someone who’s always getting burned, got to say even after all that. It was worth it.